What is success in life? Is it in building up of several major business enterprises and industries from scratch and providing livelihood to many families or place oneself in the service of others by making all out efforts to enhance the state’s image?

Late Phani Sharma can be said to have scored on both the counts. It was on the threshold of 1950. Phani Sharma arrived in Guwahati from his native village of Machkhowa in North Lakhimpur cherishing the dream of a place under the sun with a steely resolve as his only capital. At the Don Bosco College hostel during his student days– he was fascinated by the game of Table Tennis and started practicing assiduously. Soon he became a famous player and by dint of his new-found recognition made rapid inroads into the C & F and transport business. Having established himself– he thereafter built and operated a chain of cinema halls and was one of the few Assamese first generation entrepreneurs of his time who did not retreat in the face of intense competition. His leadership of EIMPA earned for him respect in the movie circles. He was the captain of our Assam Table Tennis team which took part in the National & Inter state Championships in Colombo in 1957-58. Despite being very young and virtually untrained -we could put up a fair show.

The living sports legend Pulin Das was our manager. After our playing days were over-Phani Sharma took over as the Hony. Secretary of A.T.T.A. we formed a small well-knit group with the task of training and equipping our youngsters so that they can try and win the laurels that eluded us as players. Sustained efforts brought results and in 1973-74 Assam won a National Team Trophy in TT for the first time ever at Chennai when our Girl’s team annexed the Padmavathi Trophy. Soon Assam became a Table Tennis powerhouse with new players like Monalisa Barua Mehta, Madalasha Hazarika, Nandini Barua, Meena Bora, Arunjyoti Barua, Rahul Dutta, Curfew Roy and a host of others occupying the National Centre stage. Meanwhile Phani Sharma became the TTFI Secy. as well as Treasurer.

Soon he branched into other sports and was in the helm of affairs in AFA, AOA etc. He was also the vice president of IOA and was the Dy. Chief-de-Mission of the Indian Olympic contingent to the Seoul Olympics. His crowning glory however came through Table Tennis Championships held in Calcutta in 1974. Participated by over 100 countries – he had to untangle pressing and critical financial issues involving many foreign delegations as well as look after the overall financial management of the championships. Perhaps no other Assamese till now has ever been entrusted with such a high profile responsibility in a full-fledged World spots event. He was a great admirer of the legendary R. G. Baruah and his pioneering attempts to perpetuate his memory through the R. G. Baruah Smriti Raksha Samiti was widely appreciated. In his search for a suitable position to achieve greater reach – he entered the political arena.

However, he found the uneven tracks of public life strewn with thorns. In the hustle bustle of public life – the dividing line between being showered with accolades and put on a pedestal and being run-down and derided – often gets blurred. It was also the time of parting of ways for his erstwhile colleagues and well-wishers like us who had to distance ourselves. It appeared from the sidelines that despite being on astute person he was naive at times and was used by others to advance their own agenda.

No important assignment commensurate with his talents and capabilities came his way. As the Chief Administrator of GMC he could have perhaps helped to change the face of Guwahati to some extent – butt it came at least a decade late. As the curtain came down on his eventful life on the morning of 25th June, 2007, one was left with a lurking feeling that the proven abilities of multi-faceted Phani Sharma remained unfulfilled to a great extent. May God grant his soul eternal peace !

Dwarik Sharma, Guwahati.

It surely is not an easy task to scribe about someone who belonged to a different generation. But it is much easier to connect with someone whose spirit transcends generations. We had one thing in common- our birthplace. It was in a sleepy village, Machkhowa in the Dhemaji district in the North East of Assam, Sri Phani Sharma was born.

His family was well off by rural standards, being the ‘mauzadars’. I was born in Bordoloni, about 20 kms, three decades later. Meritorious and ambitious Sharma set out to make his own space in Guwahati, without any capital in pocket. He pursued his first love sports and second love entrepreneurship with equal dexterity and attained success in both.

The driving mantra was probably ‘Fortune favors the brave’. Many of his contemporaries will write about his charter with destiny with finer details, being witnesses to his struggles, faltering and triumphs. He must have had his share of patrons, adversaries, well wishers, followers, detractors, fortunes and misfortunes, like any successful man.

Back home in Dhemaji, he is still an icon. Very few has been able to equal or surpass his attainments. His success may not be as colossal as that of Ambanis, Karshanbhais or Munjals but for a laidback place like Dhemaji, it is still monumental.

I met him on two occasions. In 1986, when I too set out to seek an entrepreneurial dream under ‘Operation Udyog’ scheme of the then Govt. of Assam. I was hardly 24 years old, and with almost zero capital in pocket. He said, I should have selected a smaller project and grew with it. Second time I met him about four months back in a private ward at AIIMS. He was in much pain and was all courteous, attentive and in his humble self. We had a hearty chat for almost half an hour covering family matters to current politics.

He was a great organizer and was with the Congress Party till his last breath. With his kind of organizing capability, education, connection, network etc. he should have gone far. He probably did not possess few critical instincts that make a top rung politician in our country. He could not keep a promise he made to me. It was a visit to our Association’s cultural centre Srimanta Sankaradeva Bhawan in Delhi. I am sure his spirit will come to visit and inspire us. Our prayers with the family. May his noble soul rest in peace.

Manoj Kumar Das
New Delhi

Besides the condolence messages posted here, a number of individuals and sports, political, social, cultural, health organisations including a few educational institutions have sent condolence messages. We thank them for their messeges

These are:

1. Meghalaya Table Tennis Association

2. Nowgong Sports Association

3. Assam Gymnastics Association

4. Maharana Athletic Club

5. Jorhat District Table Tennis Association

6. Guwahati District Body Building Association

7. Table Tennis fraternity of Guwahati (with signatures by 60 persons)

8. Assam Power Lifting Association

9. Golaghat District Sports Coordination Committee

10. Directorate of Sports and Youth Welfare, Assam

11. Asom Gana Parishad (P)

12. Shri Satyen Bora, OSD to CM, Assam

13. Assam State Commission for Women

14. Jorhat District Congress Committee

15. Guwahati City District Congress Committee

16. Block Congress Co-ordination Committee, Dispur LAC

17. Brihattar Guwahati Bhumi Pattan Samannay Samity

18. Smt. Neeva Konwar, Member, National Commission for Women

19. Assam State Film (Finance & Development) Corporation Ltd.

20. Bordoichila

21. Shri Aneel Goenka, CMD, SSG Group

22. Federation of Industry and Commerce of North Eastern Region

23. Nabina Sangha

24. Pub-Guwahati Bihu Sanmilan

25. Chandmari Unnyan Samity

26. Assam Institute of Management

27. Baidik Ashram Mohila Unnyan Samity

28. Kamrup District Council for Child Welfare

29. Indian Council for Child Welfare

30. All Assam Book Publishers and Book- Sellers Association

31. North East Chambers of Commerce and Industry

32. The Industrial Co-operative Bank Ltd

33. Pub Guwahati Girls’ High School

34. Producers’ Council, Guwahati

35. TV Producers’ Guild, N-E

36. Media Trust, Assam

37. East Guwahati Tribal Development Samity

38. Assam Association of the Deaf

39. Assam Old Age Home

40. Bamunimoidam Bohagi Utsav Udjapan Samity

41. Swagat Endolaparoscopic Surgical Research Institute

42. Down Town Hospital Ltd

43. Shri B N Daga

44. Chandmari Navagiri Mohila Samity

45. Jorhat District Congress Committee

46. Golaghat District Congress Committee

47. Goalpara District Congress Committee

48. North Cachar Hills District Congress Committee

49. R. G. Baruah Smriti Rakhya Samity

50. Guwahati Town Club

Well Wishers, Family & Friends

To My Dear Reena and the children

It is with a very heavy heart we are all saying good bye to Phanida. I am praying and hoping that sharing in your sorrow by friends and families will help you to ease your pain
It was a very happy moment for me when Reena got engaged to be married to Phanida. You two were a great couple and you both raised a wonderful family. Phanida’s love and inspiration will always remain with all of you. My wish is for peace and comfort to all of you. Sandy and Lisa are also sending their deepest sympathy to all of you.
I love you all very much. Reena you do take care of yourself. You are a wonderful friend.

Ranee
Mrs. Ranee Barooah Oregan, USA
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Dear Bubli,
We are so sad to hear about Pahni Bhindeo’s sad news ! Although we all knew his physical condition and it was imminent, the news still came as shock to us. Both Gokul Moha and myself are so sorry that you lost your father and Rina baideo lost her husband and life companion so soon!

I can still remember the days when Phani Bhindow accompanied Mukul Bhindeo few times even before the Makhoni ba got married to Mukul Bhindeo. I was in grade six / seven high school then. He was always cheerful and energetic, and I remember those days very fondly. Rina Baideo and your family was a big part of my life while I was growing up, not sure if you remember, because you were too little when we left for U.S.

You should all be very proud of your father, and all the things he has done for your family and for social prosperity! We hope the Shardha ceremony went well today, hope all family and friends are there for the great occasion. Sorry for not being able to be there Bubli, however, I really appreciate you remembering us to invite at this time. We hope God is giving you all the strength you need to overcome this difficult time and pray for Bhindeo’s departed soul to rest in peace ! My love and sympathy to everyone in your family. Please convey my hearty love to Rina baideo, tell her that I am also thinking of her and speak to her later when things are a little quiet. with love,

Deepali Mahi
Deepti & Gokul Sarma, Canada _________________________________________________________________________________

Pranati and I offer our heart felt condolences on the sad loss of your father Phani Bhindeu. I know fully well that he suffered quite a lot within the past few months but he was very resilient and we know that the suffering has ended now. May his departed soul rest in peace. Our warmest regards goes to Rina Baideu in this hour of grief and mourning with our sincere condolences. I am sure Tonmoy and Chinmoy are providing great support at this time . Our good wishes for the forthcoming Shratdha remains to the entire family as ever.

Bhupenda
Bhupendra Dev & Pranati Sarmah, Birmingham, United Kingdom
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May it comfort you to know that others are thinking of you and remembering your father with deep sympathy. We wish we were there at the Shraddha. With our love and sympathy,

Ranamoha, Janmahi and Nina
Romen, Jan and Nina Goswami, London UK _____________________________________________________________________________

Dear Chinmoy and Bobbeeta
We are very sorry to about get the news about your dad. Pl accept our condolences.

Amarda and Apara
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Dear Bubli,
I am deeply sorry to hear the news. He shall be deeply missed by many who knew him and those who did not — but knew him through his children. Our condolences and support at a time of sadness and challenging change.

Sanjoy da (Bubli da)
Sanjoy Hazarika , New Delhi
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Bubbles thankyou ..Thankyou specially for the photo attatchment. Deta has been a very important person in my life. It is the 5th today- I imagine you are all together- is mummy ok? Please will you give her my love and regard. Lots of love to Mamba Shanku, Nu Bobby, your Ankul and all the kids. Big love to you puwali.
See you soon. Stay strong

Simkiba
Mayuri Senapati, UK
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Dear Bubli,
Heard from ma about the sad news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. It will, no doubt, be a very tough time for all of you but you would need to be strong for your mother for in the coming days she will need your support enormously. Do let us know if you would like us to pick up anything at this end. Take care fo your self.

Mamon
Nivedita Borthakur. London.UK
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Dear Bubli,
We are saddened to learn that your dear fathers had passed away: our hearty condolences to you all and pray for eternal peace of the departed soul.

Auntie Puspa and Uncle Gagon, Sutton
Gagon Hazarika & Family. England
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Ankul/Bubli ,

Poetry is the process of cleansing wounds,
the tweezers for removing grains of sand embedded in the skin.
Poetry is antiseptic painfully applied before the wound festers salve rubbed in fear of infection.
Poetry is the stiching clamp held between the teeth, the pain killer so we can sleep.
Poetry is acceptance of future scars, and aches on foggy nights.
Poetry is a way of surviving when a loved one dies.
May his soul rest in peace and .
Death is not extinguishing the light; it is only putting out the lamp because dawn has come.”

Pritom Saikia, Sydney.
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Dear Bubli
I remembered fondly all the nice times we all had with uncle young and sprightly in those days of yore. Wishing all strength and fortitude to you and all else in the family in your moment of bereavement.
Take care and be well

Debraj (Raja da)
Debraj Mukherjee, Ramjas College, New Delhi ____________________________________________________________________________
 
Dear Bubli
We are sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Love

Nita, Emmet and Orla- Nice, France
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Hey Bubli,
Truly sorry and devastated to read this. We wish late Uncle’s soul rests in peace.
Let me know when you’re back in the UK.
Rgds to Ankul. -

Rick
Nironkush Rick Das, London. UK (joined in by Bugsie and Suman).
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Dear Bubli
So sorry to hear the sad news. Please accept our deepest sympathy . We will pray for his soul. Take care.See you soon.
Love & best wishes

Mira Auntie & Dharani Uncle,
Mira and Dharani Bora, UK
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Am really saddened by this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time

Sophia
Sophia Frangou
London,UK
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Hope yesterdays prayer meeting ceremony went off well. You all were in our thoughts. Linu and Manju being there must be of great comfort to you all especially Rina baideu.
Much love to all

Kumud Uncle and Jolly Aunty
Kumud & Indira Sharma, UK.
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I am really very sorry to hear about your dad. Be strong bubli, your mum needs you all more than anything. Are you still in India. drop me a line when you get back. I will remember you in my prayers.

Love Lisa
Elizabeth Zachariah, Croydon, UK _________________________________________________________________________

Dear Bubli,
came to know about Uncle’s sad demise from Papa and can understand what state you all must be in. I pray that God gives you the stength to endure the pain and loss. It is good that you were with him during his last hours, of course that is no solace but what can we do against the will of God. Hope Aunty is being able to cope with the loss by not stressing herself too much. With prayers and best regards to all of you,

Liza ba.
Manchester, UK